Time to weigh in on feelings...

As of yesterday in the state of Florida it is legal for same sex couples to marry, hip, hip, hooray!

Now this resolves the ageless question of why couples start to look like one another after being married for so many years! Bud dump bum.

That said in only the nicest ways, really!

In truth I have always felt that two people no matter who they are should be allowed to make their relationship legal, fewer bastards being born that way…OOPS!

Did I say that out loud; hear me Hollywood?

Yes, in my old fashioned narrow minded brain lack of total commitment and having children has escaped hard minded moralists’ grasps for way too long to speak up or is that out?!

Why is it that so many in “the biz”, enjoy creating children out of wedlock and  magnify the whole damn thingy, by giving them crazy names to screw up those offspring in the whole unholy deal they made!

And this from an agnostic, shame on you American teens who subscribe to the concept due to your favs in the music or movie or whatever biz that promotes this as the norm and by putting children through such accusatory rationales of being called names and possibly end up being bullied, due to how they were conceived, hmm?

Make those ‘parents’ get married and then if it doesn’t work out community property I heard is quite a deal there, true?

Most states have great laws for divorces these days, do not fear commitment because there is always a way out!

Oh where was I?

Love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage, now that sounds familiar I wonder where that came from, hmm…

“"Love And Marriage"

Love and marriage, love and marriage,
Go together like a horse and carriage.
This I tell ya, brother, you can't have one without the other.

Love and marriage, love and marriage,
It's an institute you can't disparage.
Ask the local gentry and they will say it's elementary.

Try, try, try to separate them, it's an illusion.
Try, try, try and you only come to this conclusion:

Love and marriage, love and marriage,
Go together like a horse and carriage.
Dad was told by mother you can't have one
You can't have none.
You can't have one without the other.

[Musical interlude]

Try, try, try to separate them, it's an illusion.
Try, try, try and you only come to this conclusion:

Love and marriage, love and marriage,
Go together like a horse and carriage.
Dad was told by mother you can't have one
(You can't have none.)
You can't have one without the other.”

Thanks to: http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/franksinatra/loveandmarriage.html

In the long and short of it all, marriage is a fine institution whether you are in it for the long or the short haul, beware though it’s a crap shoot as they say; referring to cards for you youngins. Craps is a card game, truly:

http://www.hoylegaming.com/rules/showrule.aspx?RuleID=206

And you have to be very, very brave to commit to that leap of faith; whoa, the agnostic gal is using religious terminology!

So that is why my generation did it very young, in their early twenties before they knew even before fight or flight had a chance to kick in… KIDDING!

Nah, really and truly any relationship whether ‘legal’ or living in sin, KIDDING, is not that easy to maintain but if you recall the why you fell in love in the first place and always remember that it was that love that got you into this whole thing then and only then will you have the ability to realize that, oops whatever did I do, nah… COMPROMISE; and now this is for all relationships to say out loud, happy spouse happy life! BIG SMILE HERE! Or HAPPY SIGNIFICANT OTHER HAPPY LIFE, see I am flexible, in too many ways to count, ha!

On that note of really congrats to all who love from an old fashioned couple of a man and woman, married forty-four years next month, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask you all to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know who and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!