Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Sex, sex, sex, and more sex!

Men are pigs!
And who gets blamed for that?
Their mothers!
Not in this household! And we, Hubby and I raised two; men that is.
Women stop making your sons PIGS!
No, not funny at all.
I see as the main honest benefit for all of the women telling on their seducers, pedophiles, rapist and every other vile not asking at all or ever for touchy feely bad demonized behavior from any man is that all of the male perpetrators will be fired and put into jail if it all ends the way it should, leaving all their career positions to be filled by decent caring non-sexist people called WOMEN! If only!
 
Gosh, this is a horrid topic to discuss, but I say it's about time too.
The timing is right for all of us to get this horrific secret out into the open!
And I applaud all the women, children, and men who have told with so much strength their individual mistreatment's, and hope that these discussions helps them deal with their nightmarish horrors in their life's histories and gets the animals responsible dealt with appropriately! (Sorry to all animals, I do not mean to defame you, for lack of a better noun, forgive.)

For I too was, or should I say, "me too"! I was a victim from my male family members when I was a child, but thank God I said no to them and it worked, they held me down, two males that shall remain nameless here. I yelled and ran, and another time, earlier, one of them asked me if he could put his you know what into my you know what, but he said it using the right anatomical words, again I said NO,... and I went for decades never telling anyone until I was an adult in my thirties. Not as severe as most, but to me it was bad, real bad.
So I get it.
Scary, confusing, especially when you are prepubescent... and I even get it for the adult women too.
It's difficult to tell due to why or how you feel you, "let", yourself get into that precarious situation so we blame ourselves and then horrifically out of fear tell no one, not good, yup I do get it!

 When I was a high school student a boy I knew snuck up behind me at my locker innocently tickling me and I made a fist as I turned and swung, missing him though! I was that way whenever anyone snuck up on me. He was fine, but he never did that again.

Hard to get over some things.
Maybe that is why I went to an all girls college, although Hubby and I were dating then.
I was not into public displaying of affection either, I was marred; still am somewhat... I guess.

On this note allow me to be the very first to wish you all a very happy good night and ask you to kindly share all your blessings and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!



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