DEATH??? I know from afar three who have passed away since March, two just this past week alone, but only one of those were from COVIV-19.
Joan, NJ passed away from a freak accident March 3rd, healthy as all get out, hits her head and dies! (Old school chum, reunited slightly on FB) Friend below also went to school with her and below her current losses... that makes three are we done yet?
Bill, NJ also was an attorney and helped with my father's estate way back in 1986, he died after contracting COVID-19 Friday.
(and my friend's, her husband, who had passed away years ago 2003 from pancreatic cancer, was his Bill's mentor and law partner.) * My friend who is the friend to her husband's law partner mentioned here was told by his wife that it will four weeks until he could be cremated due to all the deaths!
Dennis, TN, I did not know at all although above friend's cousin died after a valiant fight with cancer yesterday.
Are we to take all this in our stride and carry on?
Or should we be heartsick?
Loss is not for sissies!
But sadly a part of life.
As I get older not that this realization is new or unique it appears more people's lives end...
But how they die is what gets most of us... too soon or why no cure?
We as human beings seem baffled by why life goes so fast in too many cases so it would seem.
Then you hear of deaths of infants and children and they are always the worse to deal with, why? Well, because they are NOT supposed to die!
I am not good at handling death, never was never will be.
Some people are so strong and wise and seem to know what to say.
Not me I screw up.
Now over the years take to saying simplistic words, "I am sorry for your loss".
Of course I do mean every word of it, but is it enough?
Being a grown-up we all should know what to do what to say, hmm right?
Well, no, not everyone of us.
Some were never taught to react to emotions good or bad not always able to teach you must feel sincerely have the ability to emulate, put yourself in that persons position to truly understand.
Sometimes people's privacy will feel invaded, so stop and think before you go too far stepping on intimate personal details of how they passed... for some do not want to say how or why...huh?
OKAY!
They are gone, I do not get that attitude, secrecy for no reasons that are logical to me?
Oh, I gave you names like the count realization of a few days ago.
These are people, with lives prior to death that were mothers. sisters, daughters, fathers, sons, brothers with so many loved ones of family and friends that all will be sorely missed!
People die not numbers!
That is all that I am saying.
Be smart and be safe!
Happy good night to all!
Count those blessings and we will too!
And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!
Aussie shut it down!
(I am an Australian Shepherd, an interesting factoid I was supposed to be a miniature but...as you might know I AM NOT! But I am now 29 months old, so I am the baby HA! I was three months old when Mommy and Daddy adopted me.)
No tail/tale publishing circa 2018.
Don't forget us too! 
Easy as Aussie, Bella, Chance, now you got it!
And me Chance, I am a Bichon Frise mix, first I thought Maltese but now I am considering poodle? I am pictured here with Mom and Dad at the Port Charlotte Animal Welfare League! I am five years old they think.
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