Inconsiderate

The word above gives us all a moment in time to stop and look within ourselves to think could we have done this or think about when others may have been that way to us as individuals.

Hopefully not too often, but possibly it has happened once or twice that you have been on the receiving end of that negativity aimed in your direction.

Or without thinking you might have been rude enough or angry enough to also behave in that bad manner, but not too many times I hope; not like me at least.

Inconsiderate means to be: selfish, thoughtless, insensitive, uncharitable, unkind, uncaring, and careless.

Which reminds me of the old adage that especially my Dad would say: “To treat people how you want to be treated”, simple and concise and logical.

Then why do some people, including myself these days forget that simple concept?

EMOTIONS IMPATIENCE IGNORANCE!

Yep, I speaking for myself, but if you have succumbed to this irrational behavior your excuses may be more in depth to explain your reasoning, hmm?

Let’s put it this way, we all have flaws, even me, I jest, ha, any-who and for the betterment of myself and all the world I have determined that I should try harder to BEHAVE in difficult situations… who moi? SURE!

Yesterday at the mammogram women’s health center, one of the many available testing facilities my Dr. Nord has available to her being part of an enormous group called Millennium.

They have you yearly fill out a form about your health history, mine has not changed that much in the last several years, but they still want updates I suppose for their CYA.

So these forms are only three pages on one side.

And for the last few years I noticed a question that this year I decided to answer with a question mark, since in reality I am not quite sure.

It had to do with the question if I am an Ashkenazi Jew, which is from specific areas of Europe such as Germany, Poland as well Sephardic countries; the reason I put a question mark is that it is my belief my family was from England, Russia, and Austria and all in the 1800’s,since all were here by the end of that century and the very beginning of the 1900’s and my cousins, two, who are working on our genealogy which has only my father’s side, the Austrian one and we don’t know for sure other eastern European countries that have been thrown into the mix.

Now the significance for this information in pertaining to mammograms and possible breast cancer is for some unexplained, to me, reason many from that heritage seem to have more breast cancer in their families, so knowing your background is very important in that respect.

http://www.genetichealth.com/BROV_GEN_of_BROV_In_ASHJ.shtml

After reading once again, according to what I did read, I am more than likely one of the many from that region.

But when the technician asked me if I did not know I was Jewish because I had put the question mark I said of course I know, because I thought the question was more specific to from where my ancestors had come from, and even my quickie answer of Russia and Austria were indicative of the region considered of mine, and yet wise gal/stupid gal thought it was more likely people from Poland which I thought had not yet been determined in my cousins search as of yet.

Oops!

Anyway my stupidity in a quick answer was ignored; by a better person than I.

Now I do understand and have always understood the reasoning of why on a medical form they would ask that question now I can say that I am one of the many from that region.

On that note of trying to stop my rampant stupidity from overwhelming my personal reality allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask all of you to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know who and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!