Monday, December 7, 2015

I like it!

So many of the stores like Best Buy, a national store who is donating to St. Jude's, others are donating to non-profits as well for the holidays such as the Harry Chapin Food Bank which a Kia dealership in Cape Coral is doing.
So many follow suit during this time of the year which is a shame in the fact that sometimes after the holidays it stops, but not always.
Even our grocery store Publix collects year round to feed the hungry.

We all feel the need to be a bit more generous with thoughts that we are so lucky and should share in whatever capacity we can from volunteering to monetary donations even as small as coinage into the little red kettle ones.
The expression that it is always better to give than receive, we all know that is very true.
I used to do volunteering and when I did it made me feel so much better about myself, now that sounds selfish.
Though whatever your reason to help others just do it if able.
If not write a check, ha!

Actually, no one should be bullied into being altruistic it should be genuinely within your heart.
Good deeds can be from opening doors to thanking people more often for smaller things.

Moving on...

Odd time of the year to start this project of mine but I did today, an experiment of sorts. 
A diet of some weird considerations.
But if it works you'll all be laughing, hmm? (with me, not at me, I hope.)
Today I was going to weigh myself due to it being my first day and guess what?
My nearly brand new scale wouldn't work at all!
That did not deter my beginning, oh no, I am determined to really try.
Since I am unable to exercise in any form, eating less calories is how I decided I must go.
Although, not one to count those nasty things ever I felt portioned meals that are sold easily in the grocery would be the best way to go.
Proper amounts of protein and vitamins and calories all taken into consideration as well as low cholesterol, fat, salt, sugars/carbs etc. 
So don't yell at me you too good to be true healthy folks, and I decided to chose Slimfast drinks for twice a day, breakfast and afternoon snack, with tiny Clementines and other fruit and also raw veggies to pick up the slack and Lean Cuisine for lunch and my homemade soups for dinner; this week I made my 15 bean soup with brown rice, stewed tomatoes and turkey sausage.
Hubby bought the same quantities of Stouffers for himself as he did of my Lean Cuisine for lunch, and oddly enough their nutritional value has improved tremendously.   
We only got a weeks' supply so far to see how it goes, and we lucked out since both frozen microwavable meal companies products were on sale at four for ten dollars, so we got eight each, a week and a day's worth, what a bargain! 

Who knows, but we have nothing to lose, really, except for me some weight I do hope.
Hubby is still thin so he has no reason to diet and his choices were not for that purpose at all, just healthy.
He has frozen multi-grain waffles, eggs and cereal, hot and cold etc. for his breakfasts as well as Carnation instant breakfast that we both like.
Apples, oranges and bananas always in our fruit bowl.
So we do eat well.

On that note of so should the world, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask you all to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know whom and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!

Happy second night of Hanukkah and to all a very good night! 

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Happy first night of Hanukkah!

To all my friends and family who celebrate Hanukkah that is.
Question out there, what do you think of calendars that don't have all holidays on them, specifically one's you celebrate, are they not being all inclusive? 
My this year's calendar,2015, does not have Jewish holidays and out of the two sent to us for 2016 only one does.
I don't know what that actually means, but it is difficult to keep track, although thanks to friends and family and Google somehow someway I do find out!
And thank you for that!
We are a nation of many faiths and so I believe our local businesses or even local governments should be aware of including all people especially during the holiday season.
I have taken to the logical assumption(I know it's not nice to assume and we all know what that really means, making an ass of you and me, cringe factor back again for the holidays, whatever that means.) these days to wish people a Merry Christmas instead of just Happy Holidays, only due to the more than likely possibility that they
 are of that faith who celebrate it due to statistically more than any other logical reasoning.
On my side, of the Jews, that is, we are not as plentiful due to being annihilated throughout history and that's why I cannot understand the rest of the world's population hating us and fearing us, when we have become so diminished in numbers. We have done it to ourselves too with intermarrying like I have, Hubby is Catholic, some of us are not as smart to incorporate both religions in the family...
Sadly, we did not celebrate our religious holidays individually as much as we should have and took the actual religion somewhat out of Christmas and Hanukkah by not always discussing the basis for the holidays as clearly as we could have with our sons.
Consequently, as far as I know they are not that big on holidays or religion when in my mind I figured they would decide for themselves as adults, but now they are both grown men and do not have children, perhaps later on they will decide, no longer in my decisions radar though at 39 and 43.
As a child I went to Sunday school and even Hebrew school, my formal religious educational background was about seven years, but when my parents passed away, I was in my thirties by then, even before that we all seemed rather A-religious, if there is such a thing, like A-political? Oh don't get me wrong, I light my menorah that my parents gave to me from our conservative synagogue, and if anyone says an anti-Semitic comment my feelings are definitely hurt tremendously, but sometimes I speak up/out and horrifically sometimes in the past had said nothing, for shame on me, but due to not wanting a confrontation, which has happened over the years. Hate mongers are still among us, and have always been there, sadly.  
That is why I try hard to promote no hate and more understanding of our differences as well as our commonalities, why not at least try. Although, I cannot understand religious zealots and they make me very nervous.
Tis the season truly, but Geez all year long should be! 
Happy/Merry to all and to all a good night.
I hope my feelings about the season are clear, if not it is again just my unrequested bias opinionated opinion, please remember that!

On that more than confusing note I am sure, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very Happy Hanukkah, another silly wishful assumption, ha, and ask you all to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know whom and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Technical difficulties delayed this posting tonight!

Thanks for being there no matter what.
Due to no Internet for a small period of time tonight I will make this entry brief.
We finally found a wireless printer that was priced for us that also has all the bells and whistles we desired it was at Best Buy, a HP 5530, inexpensive but "enough" for our needs, just $49.99, would you believe?
During the hooking up process is when the net went down. 
Thus our delay, and we just got off the line with our tech at our provider Century Link, but Hubby got us back online without her help, aha!
Some things are meant to be done yourself, I suppose.But to be fair she did try.

On that note allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask you all to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know whom and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear?

Friday, December 4, 2015

Terrorist, murder for hire, drivebys...oh my and yet no one knows why

Living in this world makes you wonder why...
Why anyone worries about over population
Why birth control is an issue
Why pollution should be dealt with
Why students should pay off their loans
Why parents should teach their children to play nice
Why be concerned with stranger danger
Why be prepared for natural disasters
Must I go on?
My title tells you why all these other concerns are somewhat
not as important
Since will we still be here to 
Have lives
Save lives
Live lives
Can we not find solutions?

Horrible thoughts but not hard to understand.
We should all try and take a harder look at the best way to make these changes before our own hatred of one another kills us all.

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Every once in a while...

...I get like the rest of you get, upset.
Life is hard in this world with or without seeing and hearing news stories that harm others in it way too often.
You would have to be as cold as a rock not to feel something.

Over the years I have actually met people who refuse to watch, read or listen to the news and that has always bewildered me.
How can those people hold an intelligent conversation?
Oh now that sounds a bit judgmental.
But seriously, we are a world that needs for us to know what is going on in it, truly.
Not watching listening or reading the most current of events to me seems disingenuous with myself.

Many rationalize their reasoning for not watching due to their own ability to handle what is emanating through the airwaves, also not knowing what to believe when so much is opinionated and sent out before all facts are proven to be true.That does have quite a bit of validity.
But as adults we should be able to disseminate and be strong enough to handle the truth of what sadly goes on in this very intense world we all live in.  

Taking breaks from the bombardment over and over again of extreme scenarios that happen way too often on the TV or computer is sometimes all one can do to take that cleansing breath of necessity to step back and perhaps ask what could you do to help change things in this world.
I know not all of us are individual legislatures, but we have access to them and can write to them, petition them or go to local meetings to accomplish change, and tell them what we think about ideas on what might work to stop these horrific mass murders, everyone has thoughts on better background checks and prevention of ridiculous types of weaponry, automatic, war quality. Again the guns were purchased legally!
Time after time, these folks had no criminal backgrounds, scary! Then what?
I wish I knew.
The husband did have an association with the middle east but that alone cannot always be telling. He was a born here; American just like me.
I have no criminal background and yet I have no desire for a bunch of gun purchases with an amazingly ridiculous amount of ammunition, do you think that could have been a red flag??????
I'm just saying... take away all the similarities between them and me and the guns and ammo are the difference, true?
That's how we can stop them methinks, you too I hope.

On that note of what we could be doing is that, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask you to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know whom and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear! 

 
 

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Murderers!

Senseless killings ...again this time in San Bernardino California:

http://news.an-bernadino-shooting-live-coverage-193436110yahoo.com/s.html


Please world stop!

No words will ever be enough or explanations make any sense.

Up to the minute information from their law enforcement on the hour, 14 presumed dead with fourteen injured.

Active shooter situation still ongoing.

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Who can keep up, seriously!

The GOP should have one of those pro ball score sheets to pass out to go along with all their tantalizing eye catching ignorance/bigoted spewing of howlings that all media forms latch onto and project to us the consumers of such subterfuge, or better yet slight of hand hatching's from these simplistic specimens proving once again the lack of good legitimate candidates on their side, more noise than substance in my opinion for what it is worth, not a thing, truly!

Makes one wonder why the Good Ole Party exists in this day and age. Some one needs to gain control, just a suggestion.
The way the club is running now makes one believe if any of them were to magically win our nation would be committing anarchy!
Get your acts together folks.
Most of the nation is wondering where your so-called decorum went? 
And the one who takes those reigns will be sure to win the GOP front runner candidacy.
But alas not win the final contest, the damage has been done. And contrary to your sides opinion being a total outsider is not that great a resume requirement.

I am tired, truly very, very, tired of the concept that experience in government is a negative, what, huh?
Inexperience has always been the issue when applying for any job, ya know? No one has ever said I want that first year med student taking over the surgical department, hmm?
These business people are claiming their tunneled linear educational backgrounds are fine for dealing with all our multi-layered divisions of departments and concerns domestically as well as internationally; sorry I don't buy it.
You can be a jet setter, but it doesn't mean that you can talk to world leaders, negotiate with them, not piss them off with your talking before thinking carefully of how to state what has to be said? 

All I know right now is that the other party, your opposition, has been running circles around you with acting more professional, serious, and able to do the job.

Yes, we have a long way to go, but my decision is nearly made on the persons or person I hope to move back into or in the White House in January of 2017.
Good luck players!
The games continue and the highs and lows are just making the vision more clear.

On that vague note of my unsolicited opinion once again, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask all of you to kindly count all your blessings and share all your overages with you know whom, and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!

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