Why is it on social media
that we have this incessant need to be liked?
Does it mean that all these
business networking types are actually insecure?
It reminds me of junior high
with friends’ cliques.
I know I know it is a contest
to get the most people to your site that you are selling, what?
For whenever I arrive at
their site, determined to fill their need, there is nothing telling me why I am
there. If they do say what they do for their living and it is not illegal,
depraved or disruptive to society I will usually like it/them.
Although, on a few occasions
I have dishonestly said, sure, when asked and not even gone there; oops did I
just say that out loud?
We all know that in our heart
of hearts it is times like these that we don’t want, need or care to make waves
in the world, right?
The world has enough problems
to deal with without me adding to them, don’t ya think?
And it appears that this last
generation is not so sure on how to proceed with whatever they are trying to
provide for the rest of us…simple, has always proven to be the best way when
needing to describe what it is that you want from the rest of us
patrons/consumers and I only wish they were more specific. I suppose that some
may find that too demanding.
To tell you the truth I am at
a loss with so many of the menu specific concepts now on our joint social site,
like the ‘follow’ gadget on the timeline. In truth, I had no idea what it was when I initiated it
a few weeks ago and then all of a sudden people started to go on it and I found
out that many were just there waiting to become my friend and as soon as I
friended them they no longer were following me, odd, and confusing. And than
they’re some that if you try to let them friend you they don’t and continue to
just follow you! I still don’t get it?
You see, with my blog it
makes sense to me if they follow you there… Although, I do know that once you
post that you follow someone it can’t be undone, since many are no longer
really there, or are they? WOO WHO.... We have parted ways, unfriended them by me or
themselves unfriended me and one forgot that she had been there already and she dittoed
herself! Quite perplexing if you think too hard on it, so I won’t! LOL!
In reality, that just sort of
let the cat out of the bag about me too, who doesn’t want to be accepted?
Any who said that they don’t,
goodbye, you lie! Sorry, but true.
I know as we get older we say
we don’t care, because with all our wisdom we are supposed to have all this
confidence from our life experience and being independent, but ya know it ain’t
true!
All of our days are a bit
sweeter with knowing that others care that we are here on this planet and that
we will be here for many, many, years from now on…you know that is true, that’s
what puts the human in human nature, hmm?
Contradictions too, I have
said some things one day and switched my brainwaves in almost the next tact or
tract, opposite direction, without skipping a beat… more than likely taking more time to reconsider.
And taking the time to do something, oh so simple… TO THINK!
Sure, I know looking back at
my own writings here I can see that has happened several times, stuff happens
is my only excuse!
But the complexity of us all
is what makes us interesting, right?
Not dishonest.
Changing our mind is a normal
growth pattern for many.
As long as it is all
encompassing, and I have been known to waffle on some of those issues, but that
is my problem, not yours, since I rarely if ever have that much power!
We are told we do though, aren't we and we told our kids too, didn't we...
One person could change the
world, and so we should all check our words more carefully, starting with my
own…you check yours, okay? Whew, share the wisdom.
On that note of a bit of my
own writings causing some, okay, a lot of confusion, allow me to be the very first to wish all
of you a very happy good night and ask you to kindly count all your blessings
and share all those overages with you know who and we will too!
And next time please be here
or be square, ya hear!
Our morning rain on our
backyard pool, looks a little like a bubbling caldron, hmm? And no, I am NOT A
WITCH or any rhyming of that either! HA!