Saturday, January 14, 2012

Feelings...can we talk about feelings?

Everyone has them, that’s a given.
I suppose they could even be considered one of the many things that separate us from the lesser primates, hmm?
Although, I am more than sure some anthropologist or zoologist would beg to differ with me, hmm?
But let’s get real; many things in our daily lives have effects on how we perceive them and come back to us with our emotional attitude on what specifically that is, got that?

As we grow daily and this time I am not talking about our outer shells that the world sees and makes immediate judgment on, but our inner sanctums, our inner strengths or weaknesses in handling life’s occasional injustices, our personalities or perhaps our preconceived personality flaws…but for lack of a better verbal description, ‘our feelings’ and therefore our reactions to infiltrating adjustments in our outer world exposure and how we react to that portion of our daily co-existing.

Some of us are fairly cavalier with most things, allowing for the proverbial duck like exterior of everything slide off of our backs, not unlike water on those feathers of that water fowl.
Sadly most are not so cold or callous, but you just yelled that’s not it!
There are people who have the power to departmentalize or prioritize in the game of reactions to what should or could be important in life, hmm?
Scary folks, in my book with way too much self control, ha!

With that said, I have always been the type of person that looks at difficulties or any problems with the attitude that knowledge is power, not unlike Sir Francis Bacon who that quote is from.
Now this has taken me far but has also, at times, created havoc with those emotions of mine that should be held in check while in public, hmm?
I say what fun would that be; if we all controlled them all of the time, hmm?
Perhaps that is why I do not go out into public so much these days, ha!
Talk about roller coaster rides for us human beings with real problems in life, and that I am sure includes all of us, hmm?
Some not as severe and some days better than others but, yep, we all have them, right?
It’s not like I am wishing this on any of you, but I am just stating facts.
The obvious, how naughty of me to remind all of you who have found that denial works best for you, hmm?
SORRY!

The most practical way to handle problems when you have exhausted all your usual paths is to emotionally move past that and either fix the thought process or use denial or meet the devil head on…true?
Metaphorically dancing around sometimes helps with changing your perception of how to feel at any given time; in other words seeing all the angles and dissecting it and utilizing another way to try to handle it.
Maybe, just taking a deep breath and counting to ten or singing in your head happy birthday, since if you sing it out loud, out of there I do believe you have to pay the residuals, ha?

Gosh, if we lack self control we are no better than the lower forms of mammals we are intelligent human creatures who should show others how to be appropriate in all different circumstances, correct?
Set an example for other people of the species, which we are seven billion strong!
Sing, don’t shout, laugh don’t cry, smile don’t frown and be the best bi-pedal in the universe with a strong following of six billion ninety-ninety-ninety-ninety etc, etc, etc. you get the idea! BE STRONG and be happy, but I wrote a ‘BE’ blog months ago, SORRY! And in that I told you all just to be you! As if you didn’t know that, I have some nerve, hmm? NEVERMIND, disregard the entire night’s blog, or not?

On that note of she said what, again, allow me to be the first to wish you all a very happy good night and ask you to kindly to count all your blessings and to share all those overages and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear?

PS we all have problems and venting like I do here nightly is my way of handling them a wee bit better, hope you find a way for yours too! And thanks again for reading…it means so much to know you are here.

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