Friday, July 29, 2011

Sabotage

Sabotage to one’s self in life is damaging, disruptive, and interfering to the point that it can harm and incapacitate you by impairing yourself to not being able to do much of anything other than to think about it.
Then why do I do it so often?
Not consciously, but heck yes, it has to be consciously when I know what I am doing has ramifications, but when I don’t get answers for questions (Questions that are not anything earth shattering either but to be polite should be answered) from those whom you consider friends, distrust shows and it sinks my heart inside of me. My resolve is to argue to no avail or to cut lose the believed to be offender.
And this afternoon I did it again without any patience what-so-ever I asked my question and waited for a response and when I did not get any but noticed in the interim that the person had time to post something on my site I first closed their post which I think was directed at me in a very negative way (or it could be my paranoia showing its ugly head) and then I unfriended them!
My temperament is still riled now and I am very sad, since I did really truly believe this person to be a friend; others have been easier since they’re no emotional connection to them, oh well…too late now.
Oddly enough two others have requested to be my friends in that time since earlier today when it all happened and I said yes to them.
Sadly these Facebook friends appear to be a dime a dozen, oops did I say that? But to be honest most will have to admit many are.
Just like men or women discuss when they have a bad break up, ‘there are always more fish in the sea”, same with friendship I am sorry to report or maybe not?
True friends I found are difficult to find.
I thought I had one and then she deceived me and this was after forty-one years of sister-like friendship our sons even call her aunt.
Lying as I said makes me cringe and some feel that only puppies and drunks tell the truth and to me that just seems like a sad commentary on us human beings.
As a confirmed Pollyanna on many topics I sure hope not.
And how odd it is to hear that a person who mimics Mom’s word of if you cannot say anything nice about someone don’t say anything at all appears to consistently find how to back door friends with negative commentary, how ironic I would say!

OK now I am on to pet peeves I do know that practically anything in life has been said before by some savvy person or another and quotes are there for the searching, surfing or what-have-you, but at times originality would be nice to hear from people instead of only using others words via the brilliant quote?

Have we all gone bonkers with the realization that we cannot come up with an original thought? I would definitely like to think that is not the case…
Of course we have all been influenced by things we have learned as children or even as adults, but when did individual thinking stop being the preferred way to communicate?
And when did we have to reference everything we say or do by what have been said or done in the past?
There ought to be a law that we as human beings should think for ourselves daily!
And do not ask anyone else their opinion or if these jeans make my backside look big or any other more profound questions, you get my drift...
This social networking is exhilarating but on some things I still think we all have a ways to go on like in the area of… THINK, THINK, THINK for yourself and then express those thoughts out loud to perhaps your Facebook peeps?

Tonight I am more than sure you will be happy to know that I can no longer individually post to your walls and from now on you all who might want to read this drivel nightly will have to go to my wall on my profile page to access it or here on Blogspot thank you the Tobi management, LOL! I cannot read those security codes and my hands tire from all those mistakes I make by my misreads of the letters… and so you either get me or not and I am truly sorry for that.

On this evening of nasty retorts allow me to be the first to wish you all a very happy good night and ask you kindly to count all your blessings and share your overages and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear?

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