Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Comments

How are you at taking criticism?
For me, it changes from day to day.
I do think that when I can take it the best is when I am well rested almost like any small child would be able to consider those words of not agreeing with them and their behavior.
Why is it that most critiquing of a person or a behavior is considered constructive?
Are there also constructive insults?
Huh, you say.
We, in the general public whom may be on the other end of those words of others trying to help us become something that we are not and don’t always hear or foresee the positive in that lexis of verbiage for our own good.

Challenging as most discussions are, on so many topics that may be the most stimulating I find it is the actual realization that many of us need to throw out remarks and bring them out into the forefront of the mix for public scrutiny.
Doing this on occasion has proven to stir up all sorts of commentary which is amazing to me because of what it is that truly seems to get people fired up.
Obscure ideas or expressed feelings seem to get many people up in arms at different times of the year or during trends of perpetual gossip on almost any topic or any field of interest.

Last night I was really wholeheartedly disturbed by the fact that Bristol Palin was safe once again on Dancing with the Stars and so I posted it and consequently although not a humongous amount of feedback but all pretty much with the same wondering attitude no one who responded knew, how can this be?
Has this young woman “Palin’ somehow charmed the watchers of the program therefore the major part of the audience from all over the world that is responsible for voting her to stay on even though the judges have constantly given her the lowest scores and rightfully so? Listen I may not be a major ballroom dancer, but I did take ballroom dancing as well as ballet, acrobatics, tap, jazz and toe for a total of twelve years, and so I feel I can tell if she has any ability… And sure she has improved quite a bit and good for you Miss Bristol but… you still are NOT that good! Sorry that was a wee bit too harsh well let’s face it others are much better than you and should NOT have left.
What’s up with the vote?
Are they being tampered with, and that is just a question friends; not an accusation, oh all right it may very well be interpreted that way.
But really I am sure I am not alone in that theory, true?
Is that a knock at my door? LOL!
Ooops, could they be coming for me?
Is the Tea Party that powerful and needy to do away with a little old outspoken disabled half blind woman who tosses out accusations with a glimmer of truth in the possibility?
Don’t answer that let me be surprised.
Besides I have protection, a retired cop Hubby and a fierce noble dog named Skipper!
Although, I suspect that I am too small potatoes to be on their hate hit list of peeps who speak negatively of them and theirs.
I try my hardest to be diplomatic when I write this nightly.
Many may not even realize my true bias in reality of who I am and what I stand up for?
Am I that cautious?

It all comes back to negative comments and sensitivity in my lack of being able to take those words that have little luster and no compassion.
OK, me too Bristol and I am old enough to be your granny and so please accept my apology you have improved but even you must admit that the others that have left should not have?
I suppose I am beating a dead horse again, but if they don’t do something about the unfair way of choosing the winners on these competitive performing shows, such as Dancing with the Stars, America’s Got Talent and American Idol they will be loosing more viewers, mark my words!
And I may be one of the first to stop watching, but I guess that won’t change things unless we start a rebellion movement? Nah…

Why can’t people just get one vote like in other elections, perhaps that would solve the problem, and they should sign in or prove they are just that ONE person, what do you all think about that?

Oh well, it’s just a thought, like so much of my stuff is.

On that note of wanting to know what can be done I will wish you all a very happy good night and to all count those blessings and share those overages and we will too!

And next time be here or be square, OK?

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