Thursday, September 23, 2010

Scream, laugh, live, love and be...

Whatever you damn (excuse my language) well want to do or be, let’s face it how many of you actually ask for and listen to others opinions on what you should do about this or that?

I know this again will catch up with me but I really have to laugh since so many out there keep telling all of us how to think and what to do and literally how to breathe, eat and disengage or dispose of our bodily functions. Economically they are taking advantage of all our insecurities in my opinion. Anyone remember having common sense?

And if they have a title before or after their name we think they are all knowing and we follow the likes of these ‘brilliant’ people like the sheep we can sadly become!

Scary! I too have been actually asked for my opinion on this topic or that; listen folks, I know nothing and I am NOT that smart; all I am, is very opinionated! And to be honest it is not that difficult and anyone can do it! LOL!

And we all know what opinions are worth and what they really mean…NOT-A-THING!

The best advice I can give to any grown human being is to think for themselves and trust themselves after all they have gotten this far in life, correct?

Why would anyone want another person’s opinion about them anyway, for self validation…hmm now we are getting somewhere…yes many of us including myself have experienced not having as much confidence in ourselves as much as we should have daily. A very wise man once told me if you have confidence you have everything!

And I took it one step further thinking that it could be the best gift a parent gives to a child; confidence in their self! There is a slight caveat here, since I truly believe there is a thin line between confidence and arrogance, so watch it! But that’s just my opinion and you all know what that is worth! LOL!

Sounds good to me the confidence concept, but you’re all smart and so you can figure out what’s best for your self and your family, and when they are grown they will let you know how that worked out for them, and hopefully think for them self too!

Funny how higher levels of learning used to be for being there to teach us all how to think for ourselves and then we get past high school and college or whatever and start to second guess ourselves and ask others…what should we do?
That my friends, boggles my mind and may I suggest it should also boggle yours too?
But take it under advisement since I am not that smart.
No titles here, before or after my name or maybe just importantly MRS. and MOM, but that’s it!
I do care about you all and what you do and why you do it.
A lot of you seem to not be sure either.
But that’s OK.
We are a world of flounder-ers (Tobi-ism) looking for our lot in life, some have found what that is and many are still looking.
When it gets down to it isn’t it that journey that makes life worth living?
Another non-solicited opinion of mine, I’ve got a million of them and so we are probably good for years to come… bud dup dum…






On that many words of no help to my readership what’s so ever I will wish you all a very happy night and to all count those blessings and we will too!

But only if you want to, remember we get one life and WE SHOULD BE THE ONES TO CALL ALL THE SHOTS ON OUR OWN LIVES; NOT SOME ONE ELSE!

And so as much as I want to say be here next time ya here; I do feel I would be ordering you to do something that should be your own decision! But I suppose I can ask, could you be here next time, please? Nah, that sounds too wimpy, let’s try this one, be here or be square, OK? LOL! YEP I like that one! C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E, got it, get it!

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