Not the weather here… got you!
Nope, it was our computer as I tried to bring up the word program.
And now I am writing this in the ‘safe mode”.
I do think, hush, hush not too loudly please; it might hear me but I do think that we are nearing the end of its lifecycle.
Moving on… in the Mom concerns…her neighbor called and said that she had insisted that she couldn’t come down when on the date we had all agreed on; because she had a free luncheon she would be going to, huh? I hate to bully anyone but I said to her on the phone that we miss her and haven’t seen her in over two years and so she should come on down! And she is returning her hearing aids for the third time, and I said to her that I think you are doing that just because you want to have something to do, and she laughed, I got her number all right!
She did agree to speak to her kindly neighbor who would make all the reservations online for her, and if she doesn’t we will be very disappointed.
Any-who, she needs a little bit of a push since because she can’t see her daughter who tried putting her away also with her grandchildren, who by the way, are all in their twenties, the eldest nearly twenty-eight, by no means babies! Two out of the three were in cahoots with their Mom and Dad to do the dirty deed. Contrary to what Hubby’s sister says about her and her husband not being involved anymore and that she seethes around him! And that they are married only for dual properties and she has no desire to work or lose her home, and that is why she hasn’t divorced him! And she won’t let her kids leave and have lives of their own, because she refuses to live alone with him, crazy!
Anyway, we got Mom to promise once again to make arrangements with her neighbor’s help, and if she doesn’t we will be notified, exhausting!
Interestingly enough last night I received an email note from my cousin the retired teacher’s wife. It was pleasant and brief stating how apparently her hip surgery was not so successful since she is on heavy doses of pain medication. Geez and I thought that is why she was getting the surgery to fix the problem! I guess it’s time to look for a new doctor! I know I would by now, this is her third surgery!
This last one was nearly two months ago!
I was also informed that my cousin himself has taken care of my uncle’s significant other by putting her in an independent living situation, not unlike what we are trying to do for Hubby’s Mom down here too, if she ever does come down!
He also now has the home to resell since it is empty again, and he is preparing that too.
Not once were we asked how we were, but she did mention that they were sorry they missed our anniversary. It always amazes me how people you ask how they are go on and on but often forget to ask you! I do both, that is I ask and I also go on and on…so whose right, neither I suppose?
But they are not really interested or we would have heard from them sooner, since we had mentioned about Hubby’s Mom’s problems way before my Uncle had died.
Some believe that their problems are the only problems.
I have written emails to them sent cards etc. but this is the first I have heard from them in months, and that is why I am annoyed. And during that time we also had lots of things going on too, but I found the time in spite of that.
You know it’s not nice to say but I have a theory about people who don’t want children or pets and that theory is because they are too selfish to share, mind you it is only a theory, but unfortunately I have been proven right over and over again.That’s not to say that people who have kids and pets aren’t selfish too, because many are.
On that note of negativity I will say good night to all, and pray I don’t get struck by lightening… its not the rainy season here so it’s pretty safe that won’t happen, and I will suggest that you all count those blessings and we will too!
Speaking My Mind is about: Tobi, who is a middle aged, no, oh all right a slightly over the hill woman with all the imperfections that go with that, and this concerns her daily life's perceptions and experiences.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
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