Tuesday, October 22, 2013

I thought the idea of acting dumb being cute went the way of the Women's Movement back in the 1970's



As a matter of opinion, as always!

Slap me silly if I am wrong here, but many people who post what happened to them moment to moment are other women who seem so helpless to me?
I feel uncomfortable outing my gender, but why; I most definitely must ask?
Didn’t we women all fight the good war for equality in the home, school, in sports and workplace?
And someday they may even pay us an equal wage for an equal job well done or done better as most of us do!
Sure more women than ever before are working, I do believe the percentage is more than half, but I could be wrong, I have been wrong before…
And many men are now staying home to help on that end with rearing the children and food shopping and housekeeping etc, how truly honorable. It was when we did it and many did both like myself.

Than why, one might ask, do so many of my own fairer sex act so cutesy dumbfounded about things, asking known answers by anyone including them even if they only had half a brain and acting like, Gee if only I knew how to do this or what is this object that does that or can it do that with it?
When we all know that they SHOULD know!
Talk about scary things in life; this could set womanhood back decades!
Games?
I have read about older women, in their thirties, forties and fifties, on up... doing this ridiculous behavior for what purpose, attention?
Of course we all enjoy attention, but isn’t it a bit ridiculous to go after it in such foolish ways…by let’s call it as it is, ACTING DUMB!
And why is it that we women find intellect sexy in our men?
A stupid guy is just that!
Personally, 'acting dumb' put on the other foot is downright annoying and aggravating there is NOTHING at all cute about that in any man! And most women would absolutely agree.
I don’t think that any of us, male or female should act or think that we are know-it-alls though; arrogance is not appealing either, but DUMB IS NOT CUTE!

Being me I posed my provocative query to the net: "Is it really cute to act dumb?"
  • And here’s is what I got back: “Jessica answered 4 years ago
“Absolutely not. Acting dumb will only get you dumb boys. You do not want that! Be yourself & don't rush things, play hard to get, just be flirty =].

Another unnamed person also answered 4 years ago
“I've noticed many teenage girls do that. Do guys really find it THAT attractive or cute?”
Thanks to: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100206052635AAoHExp
They do have more answers there if you dare to go…

Odd how it has progressed to older, more so-called mature women doing it in tweets and short blurbs on the social media sites, hmm?

I know this is just another pet peeve of mine and a bit of shame for my gender I think.
Many people follow these cutesy types to wait for them to need assistance I suspect or an online encyclopedia or an online fix it book, really! Or to just find a site that they themselves could have Googled, Asked or Binged!

It gets my goat to see that when they post, it seems that so many want to help them.
Healthy souls with quirky ideas or issues or not knowing the way to San Jose I say, RI- DIC-CU-LOUS!

If you really, really want to act that way, below is an instructional site for all who feel the need to get this odd attention by acting in this extraordinary, CUTESY DUMB WAY.

http://www.wikihow.com/Act-Like-a-Dumb-Girl

It is a must go to site for all who subscribe to the theory that dumb is cute!

And the below site is called STUPID CUTE; which is perfectly/acceptable fine with me for this particular female!

http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AkR2jrGlAnrZO5h5AFMI7s6bvZx4?p=cute+to+act+dumb%3F&toggle=1&cop=mss&ei=UTF-8&fr=yfp-t-600

On that note that some gals can be stupid and cute, as in the above youtube pic, allow me to be the very first to wish all of you a very happy good night and ask you to kindly count all your blessings and share all those overage with you know who and we will too!

And next time please be here or be square, ya hear!

Which way will the war go?

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